Saturday, February 27, 2010

Quote for 2/27/10

"Certain thoughts are prayers. There are moments when, whatever be the attitude of the body, the soul is on its knees."
Victor Hugo

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Thursday, February 25, 2010

Quote for 2/25/10

"Pain is temporary, quitting is forever."
Lance Armstrong

My posts may be infrequent lately, but I haven't quit altogether...

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Monday, February 22, 2010

All is well

It's been a great week as newlyweds. I have a few pictures on my camera, but none that I would like to post. The lighting just wasn't good for my camera and my niece wasn't sure how to adjust for that. But you can go to my Facebook page and see some of the pics that have been posted by Paula and a few others who had cameras.
We've been getting Paula and the kids moved in through most of the last week, a little bit at a time. It's been strenuous, and there have been some conflicts, but God has used it to help us all grow.
CJ's first birthday party was yesterday. He's getting so big.
Paula and I did our first Compassion event together as husband and wife last night. We are meant for ministry together. A band named Leo was playing in Greensburg and they're a Compassion band. I got to give a 1 minute presentation between bands. Two kids were sponsored. I wish I had more time to share about it all, but I'm wiped out from everything we've done lately. And we still have so much to do yet.
Please, just keep us in your prayers as we continue to transition our families into one.

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Sunday, February 14, 2010

Quote for 2/14/10

"If there is such a thing as a good marriage, it is because it resembles friendship rather than love."
Michel de Montaigne

Today's the day, people. Thank you for all of your well wishes. God is truly in this! And that is the most important thing I can say about us.

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Friday, February 12, 2010

Quote for 2/12/10

"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."
Mignon McLaughlin


Only two days away, folks. Paula and I have waited so long to find each other, it's hard to believe we're actually here.

I thank God for all that He has done to bring us together.

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Quotes from 1/2010

Saturday, February 06, 2010

Dear Soon-To-Be Mrs. Michael Cross

And anyone else who cares to read...

Thank you for taking a few minutes to fill everybody in on what's been going on with your recent comments.

I don't think that things will settled down after we're blissfully wed. I'm only hoping that I'll have a little bit of time each day - or during each week - to post something about our activities. Maybe together we'll be able to come up with some really good stuff to share.

Don't you downplay your acivities either. You've been busier than I have with all of the planning. You've just had more time than I do each day to do it in.

Yes, my poor broom is gone. Now I'll have to use the shovel...

I was going to post about Bob today, but now you've stolen my thunder. I haven't gotten all of the info yet, either. So we'll wait and see how things ended up later on.

I happen to love chinese! And it was only something quick and easy that I could work with. My other option would've been chicken alfredo - and I know you prefer red sauce over alfredo. So I went with chinese rather than italian.

OK, I'll post a couple of pics of us from the night I proposed. That way everyone will see my beard - and just how happy we are.







There. Is that better?
Now everyone gets to see me with a beard, and how truly beautiful you are.

The Youth Encounter event was a great day for me.
Compassion contacted me on kinda short notice about two weeks before this event. Compassion's HQ contacted me because my friend Randy couldn't cover the event himself, because of a previous engagement. So he recommended me. Needless to say I was grateful to be shown such confidence by someone that I truly respect and admire for his commitment to Compassion.
The event itself was agathering of local youth - mostly Middle and Jr High schoolers. So I wasn't expecting an overwhelming flood of new sponsors.
The high point fo the day, for me, was that I was allowed to give a 15 minute presentation to the crowd of about 300. I did good - from what I was told.
I used the following passages of scripture to emphasize what our callling as followers of Christ means.

Revelation 20:11-15
I focused on vs 13.
13) The sea gave up the dead that were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead that were in them, and each person was judged according to what he had done.

I reminded the kids that we're not really judge on what we do, but that our faith is dead without us doing something to show for it.

Matthew 7:21-23
21) "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22) Many will say to me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?' 23) Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!"

I explained that Jesus doesn't seem so concerned with the big stuff - the miracles, casting out demons or prophecying. So, what is it that Jesus wants us to be doing for Him? What deeds does Jesus think are worthy of allowing us into Heaven?

Matthew 25:31-46
I focused on vs 34-40.
34) "Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35) For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36) I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.'
37) "Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38) When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39) When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?'
40) "The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'

I told the kids that Jesus is concerned with the way we deal with one another, and with strangers. I told them that they have more opporunity to succeed than most kids in the world, and that I was offering them the chance to help a child to find greater opportunity to succedd in their life. I pressed them to consider what Jesus was telling them with the last passage. And I questioned whether or not they were going to walk away when they've been shown 21 children who are hungry and thirsty and in need of care. I asked if they were going to turn away from these needy children when they've been blessed with so much.

I realized that there's not a whole lot that a bunch of Middle and Jr. High schoolers can do as individuals. So I guess my appeal was more to the youth leaders and pastors among the group - that they might be moved to consider sponsoring a child as a youth group.
It worked for 2 youth groups. One of which is going to see how the youth group handles the responsibility and then they may ask me to give a presentation at their church. I have to admit, I'm pretty excited about that possibility.
But as a side note, during the day I was able to talk to several of the people who were involved with the whole event. My contact person was a young lady named Amanda. She was really excited to have the connection between Youth Encounter and Compassion. It was something that her and several other people in her office had been wanting to do for years and this years's theme of "Do. Love. Walk." (based on Micah 6:8) was the perfect opportunity.
One of the things that most impressed Amanda was the way I told the story of how Paula and I came together. And she loved the way I explained how it was all God's doing, that He had been working in our lives since we were young, in order to make us into who He wanted us to be for one another.

BTW, you can all check out our story at our Wedding Page. Ther's a lot to it, so take your time and read each section. But don't delay for too long because we'll be taking the page down after the Big Day!

Something else that had Amanda rather excited was my openess to talk about my spiritual gifts. Without being told, I deduced that this event was a Lutheran gathering. Most of the youth groups represented Lutheran congregations, and the order of worship was quite familiar. So I wasn't too sure how well received my expressions of my spiritual walk would be. But Amanda explained how she was a part of a charismatic Lutheran congregation, and she was so glad to see someone talk about such things with such boldness.
She asked me what direction I thought the charismatic movement was heading in because she sometimes felt stiffled in her church. I explained that I think the charismatic movement is turning into something that it was always meant to be. I told her that I believed that those individuals who believe that "speaking in tongues" is the most important evidence of the Spirit's work in someon's life are falling to the wayside. God is ready to use anyone who is willing to let Him have His way in them. Whether it be speaking in tongues, or prophecying, or speaking a word of knowledge or wisdom isn't as important as long as they're obedient to follow the the Holy Spirit's leading. And I told her that I expect to see miracles happening as aresult of this new move, and she should as well.
I was truly uplifted to have the conversations that I had with her. And I believe that even with the two sponsorships, my real purpose for having been at this event was to give Amanda the encouragement that she needed. I am convinced that the sponsorships were a side-blessing for me, because I was obedient to being used to exhort Amanda in her spiritual walk. And I love that as much as I love helping kids sponsored.

And one last thing...
As some of the people I work with have begun to countdown the days to my wedding with me, a conversation began at work yesterday that was another blessing for me.
As I explained mine and Paula's non-traditional wedding, one of the young ladies posed a question regarding my being "really religious". I got to talk about mine and Paula's distaste for things "religious" and how we're all about faith and following Christ. I explained that "religion" creates a list of do's and don'ts that will supposedly get us into Heaven. But what I believe is that if you have faith, then just believing that God will do what He's said He will do - which is let us into Heaven by His grace - then that's all we have to do; just believe. To which one of the other young ladies standing nearby replied that's what she's been trying live by for years.
She also expressed her desire to find a church that is non-traditional and isn't all about the religion, or the building or whatever it is that turns so many people away from church. So I invited her to The Revolution Church, since we're about as non-traditional as churches get these days. We also talked about the idea that the church is becoming more centered on Christ and following the New Testament model of small groups and home Bible studies than Sunday morning services. And she loved that idea. I even invited her to a small group that Paula and I will be starting in our home after the wedding. I hope she'll show up for one or the other.

Sometimes, God is just too cool!

So, that's what I haven't been sharing lately. But with the snowstorm dropping well over a foot of snow outside, and the subsequent State Of Emergency having been declared for Allegheny County - not to mention Monroeville - I have some free time on my hands. Now I can take a nap...

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Don't look !!!

This was what it looked like at about 6:00 PM last night...






And at about 8:00 PM...





And about 10:30 PM...





This is what I woke up to at 7:30 this morning...



Looks like I've got a lot of shoveling to do...

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Friday, February 05, 2010

Still alive

In case any of you were wondering; Yes! I am still alive. Paula and I have been busy planning the wedding, so I haven't had any time to post anything. Now, mind you, there has been a lot of good stuff going on for us, I just haven't been able to share any of it with all of you. Sorry.
But don't worry, when the dust has settled, and Paula and I are blissfully wed, I'll be able to return to a bit more regular posting schedule - I hope...
Who knows what God will do with us next?

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